Yesterday I had to spend time with my inlaws. The first part was tough. They treated my MIL like she was a toy taking pictures. Posing, dancing and making her play with their dog. She was pretty drugged up and was half asleep the entire time. I watched as my nephew was very sad as he sat there and no one seemed to notice except me.
When we left an hour and a half later I felt so violated and angry that they had tried to relate to my MIL that way. Then we went to their house. I was so mad we had to go. I told my husband just two hours and I was going to call an Uber if he did not take me home. Things got better. They were nicer.
I noticed a few things when I went. First they did not know how to treat her. They felt guilty for not seeing her more often and they acted pretty silly during that time. I did not have to perform. I just sat there. Third I should of prayed when I got upset. Instead I was just hurt and in pain. Fourth they were pretty cool at the house. Fifth my inlaws must of been hurt while they ministered at the other church. They don't go to church anymore. Sixth my SIL is not saved. She believes someone who is gay can be saved. She is decieved.
I need to pray for them and their salvation. The kids are good people but they are not relying on the Lord.
Glad I don't have to do this until Thanksgiving.
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